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Shameless, just shameless.

31 Monday Oct 2016

Posted by therapyfirst in Societal Problems

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shameless defines America these days

Frankly, I don’t know why I invariably go to some blog sites these days, as I either am severely moderated or just plain ignored, but, Shrink Rap sunk to new lows today.  I am not going to link it, but, I just want to say, you don’t write a book or present some other type of publication or public display and then write about your reviews being so glowing and wonderful.  Sorry, that is just damn pretentious and blatantly self  gratifying.

But, it does go to my hypothesis about how the internet is a primary source of nourishment for all this narcissistic, antisocial, and plain rigid and inflexible behaviors that fuels the Personality Disordered society metastasizing around us.

And you can’t go there and try to say something even remotely polite and respectful to call them on such self serving behaviors.  Nor should you, because even if one would try to note the mistake in being so pretentious, who hears it who does it so blatantly?

Anyway, if you go there, enjoy the reviews.  I don’t need to buy the book, because I am currently living the experience, and have dealt with it much of my career, so experience trumps opinion for gain.  Besides, why do you need to write a couple hundred pages when one sentence sums up the point:  “Some people possess such limited insight and judgment that they put themselves and others at risk, we just can’t let it go unchallenged at least for some period of time, so better to do too much than too little and confine them for some finite period of time.”

Hmm, can’t make that a book and sell it for 15-20 dollars, eh?

But, it is shameless…

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Example A of why old people fail at being in positions of leadership

31 Monday Oct 2016

Posted by therapyfirst in Politics, Uncategorized

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Reid and Pelosi are shameful leaders

Harry Reid and Nancy Pelosi, along with Mitch McConnell as well, have to be the worst examples of leadership in positions of power and influence I have witnessed in my 50 years plus of knowing what should be expected of people in authority.

Old people are rigid and inflexible until proven otherwise, and add to an entrenched personality disorder which I know Reid has, probably over a 95% for Pelosi as well, and McConnell, probably over 75% for him, well, logarithmic consequences for such people to be making decisions that affect other peoples’ lives.

Which is why I sincerely hope for death to take these folks out, as they have no ability to use insight and judgment to know when to bow out in a responsible and appropriate manner.  Reid is leaving because he knows he won’t win reelection next term, and Pelosi, she is almost as disgusting as Hillary Clinton in her lust for power.  McConnell, well, we will see who runs the Senate come January 2017…

Leave you with this link to show why I wrote this post:

http://townhall.com/tipsheet/leahbarkoukis/2016/10/31/brit-hume-slams-harry-reids-suggestion-that-fbi-director-broke-the-law-n2239314

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On a good note…

30 Sunday Oct 2016

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end of the line here at Cantmedicatelife

Well, my older daughter got married last night, things went well, and everyone seemed to have a good time.  Not fun to have more debt, but, smiles worth it, eh?

Anyway, have decided to again call it a life on the blog once it expires at the end of November, so, Thanksgiving will be my last post.

What’s to write about anymore, I know many who read here don’t like political posts, so, I think I have written fairly much everything I could about psychiatry that could be of benefit or interest, and I can’t educate folks any further about personality disorders, so, I guess all I can say is you’re on your own in a bit more than three weeks.

Will again try to end on interesting notes, more major keys than minor…

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Best image I could find that resembles last night, actually got the number of bridesmaids and best men and the colors correct too, cool…

I’ll ask the obvious question.

26 Wednesday Oct 2016

Posted by therapyfirst in Politics, Ranting by a concerned American, Societal Problems

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Recrimination coming to fruition, Trump does surround himself with those like him

Just curious, what do readers make of all these sanctimonious, purer that now conservatives and staunch Republicans who said back in February thru March how Donald Trump was completely unacceptable, and now today tell us to not vote for him is just voting for Hillary Clinton?

I don’t know about anyone else, but I despise hypocrites, and I loath those who are sheer panderers and opportunists.  And you look at who are Trump’s loudest proponents out there on these cable shows, the ilks of Christie, Giuliani, and Gingrich, and you remember how corrupt and pathetic these losers are in their morals and commitments to others in relationships.

But worst, pay attention to those who frame this election as a sheer polarized event.  To not vote for Trump is not solely an alternative as voting for Clinton.  No, it is also a vote for someone else, or, not voting and if the masses agreed with my logic in the earlier post here that either of these two losers winning the election with less than 25% of the total electorate potential vote is a start as an embarrassment, well, there are choices besides a Republocrat.  But, you are looking at the framing of the Personality Disordered, it is only black and white, and should you ask about gray, well, hold onto your hat!!!

So, the beginnings of “recriminations” is starting, because both sides are seeing that there is no clear writing on the wall of “winner” at hand.  You might want to acquaint yourself with that word and the definition.  Here, I’ll give it to you:

“Sometimes you accuse your opponent of refusing to compromise and he accuses you of the same thing. That’s a recrimination, an accusation or insult that’s hurled back at someone.”

Hmm, an extension of projection perhaps, how mature…

And you thought the last couple of months were painful, wait until after November 9, when all the outright rage breaks through the dam wall…

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Sore losers, no, you will see egos running amok and wild!

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Addendum few hours later:

awesome link, will include one cartoon for the point:

http://townhall.com/tipsheet/erikahaas/2016/10/26/10-cartoons-that-perfectly-capture-how-voters-feel-during-the-2016-election-n2237268

What a Clinton Presidency might wind up resembling in 2 years?…

25 Tuesday Oct 2016

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Democrats are the antisocial party, Kathleen Kane's sentencing a harbinger of Hillary Clinton's term

Oh, you gotta read this one, and then realize, yep, women have come a long way to be just like men, and well, read it and get my point:

http://townhall.com/tipsheet/mattvespa/2016/10/25/disgraced-ag-kathleen-kane-slapped-with-1023-month-jail-sentence-for-politicallymotivated-grand-jury-disclosures-perjury-n2236474

I will say this until I die:  it is time to give the MMPI to all people running for public office, and then decide what to do when some of these folks score above the 90 percentile for issues like Narcissism, Antisocial traits, and the most important, the Lie Scale.

Do you really want people with such pervasive dysfunctional traits in positions of power, influence, and authority?  Do I even have to ask that question?!

But, to bring it back to the title of this post, this story reads exactly what a Clinton presidency will mirror within two years.  It’s been two generations plus since Nixon’s failures were witnessed, amazing how 40 some years can erase insight and judgment from the minds of those over 55 years old, at least.

Anyone want to take this bet:  over 60% of voters over 60 years old will vote for Clinton.  And thus leads to what I replicate from my mentor George Carlin, who really sucks in this country at the end of the day…

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Why is it they say irony is a bitch…

Again, is it really just me???

25 Tuesday Oct 2016

Posted by therapyfirst in Politics, PPACA/Obamacare, Ranting by a concerned American, Societal Problems

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Obamacare and consequenc, Premium increases in Obamacare 2017 will kill people

Now that the facts are in and many in this country are facing 15% or more increases in their health insurance coverage just for the coming year of 2017, is it really just stupid legislation and poor insight, or, is it really sly legislation and devious insight how to screw up millions of peoples’ lives who are at best a 50:50 shot at voting Democrat and just insidiously kill them off by minimizing their ability to pay for health care???

I think those who so quickly dismiss my hypothesis that much of what Barack Obama has “championed” for in his agendas and philosophies were just covert operative efforts to unravel the fabric that was a relatively healthy American culture, those clueless and complicit idiots deserve to be screwed in the coming year .  And screwing up health care access, wow, how cruelly effective is that to undermine a crucial foundation to the basis of American function?

But, he is allegedly gone in less than three months, but, many of the equally lame scumbags who shrieked the loudest for this bullshit legislative assault somehow are still in office, and you need to look at your neighbors, colleagues, and perhaps even the term “friends” who still vote for these losers.

Again, think about that line from “Field of Dreams”, how can you respect a person who’s hero is a criminal?  It speaks the loudest volume about the insight and judgment of a person who supports without hesitation one who is a detriment to not only a community or city, but the entire country?!

USA TODAY’s headline today is about how this country can heal after such a divisive election?  The honest question that would never be printed nor uttered in any media that wants to be valued by general readership is instead “How do people live with themselves hereon after being clueless or complicit to supporting candidates who don’t care about the public”?

And again, what are people going to do in the next year if and when they have a real health care crisis and can’t afford to pay for needed care interventions.

Cue the real Democrat reply you’ll never hear Maim Scream Media utter under their complicit breaths with this hostile agenda “I forgot the part where that’s my problem”!!!

Oh yeah, none of these politicians participate in Obamacare.  Now isn’t that a revelation that should shock some into action in two weeks…

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Sums up the value of Nancy Pelosi and Harry Reid for me!!!

Addendum 5 minutes later:

The fourth exclamation point:

http://www.dailywire.com/news/10208/great-obamacare-failure-our-corrupt-media-cant-john-nolte

“But because our media was in on the “keep your insurance” lie from the beginning, they can’t report on the key reason ObamaCare is failing. To do so, to tell the public that ObamaCare counted on millions of healthy Americans losing their employer-insurance, would be to admit that this was always part of the plan.

Stay ungovernable, America.”

Again, who do you trust?  Part of the Personality Disordered Society agenda, tell the lies so much and so loudly, truth is just blown away.  It is what the Democrats and their ilk of allies are at the end of the day, hypocrites and elitist slime who only want power, control, and money.  At any cost.  Even peoples’ lives.

Think about it…

Driving analogies run true…

23 Sunday Oct 2016

Posted by therapyfirst in Personality Disorder issues, Societal Problems

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80% of drivers engage in road rage behaviors, Shut up and drive

Always been a believer what happens on the road accurately reflects what reckless drivers are like out of their cars as well.  People who don’t use blinkers, who drive slow in the Left lane of highways, who cut off two lanes of traffic in getting off at an exit less than 500 feet away, these people aren’t just jerks, but insensitive losers.

So, I picked up my recent issue of AAA magazine, and on page 4 was this gem:  “Extreme Behavior:  A new study shows that nearly 80 percent of drivers engage in aggressive driving behaviors”.  Really, 80%.

Can’t find the AAA article to link it, but found a related post that seems to be the precursor for the AAA article, so linked below:

http://www.insurancejournal.com/news/national/2016/07/15/420184.htm

You’ll love these little tidbits, hmm?:

  • Purposefully tailgating: 51 percent (104 million drivers)
  • Yelling at another driver: 47 percent (95 million drivers)
  • Honking to show annoyance or anger: 45 percent (91 million drivers)
  • Making angry gestures: 33 percent (67 million drivers)
  • Trying to block another vehicle from changing lanes: 24 percent (49 million drivers)
  • Cutting off another vehicle on purpose: 12 percent (24 million drivers)
  • Getting out of the vehicle to confront another driver: 4 percent (7.6 million drivers)
  • Bumping or ramming another vehicle on purpose: 3 percent (5.7 million drivers)

Thus, what I continue to note, living in a Personality Disordered Society, have to find the right acronym for this, I think PDS is already used, so will come up with one that fits the bill a bit more humorously, or more likely, sarcastically?

Oh, by the way, in the article, us Northeast drivers are worse than any other region in the U.S.  Think it relates to all this pathetic traffic jam waste of time?

I’ll admit it, I am a honker when I am behind people who sit at a green light, usually these drivers still playing with their phones or other tech gadgets and NOT paying attention to the road.  Not a Rihanna fan, but, that song, “Shut up and Drive”, my theme song when I get in my car nearly every day.

I wait to hear someone complain they got a ticket for using their cell phone in the car, and I doubt I will have any empathy…

let’s leave with a song…

More Personality Disordered Society BS

22 Saturday Oct 2016

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Disrespecting the National Anthem, Line between protesting versus just insulting

Sorry, this to me is as characterological as it gets:

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-3861442/Anthem-singer-Heat-76ers-game-kneels-performance.html

So far to now, my opinion and feelings on those who want to kneel while the National Anthem is being performed, well, I just wonder why these losers stay in this country, but, their right to protest, so I ignore these losers.

But, when you accept the offer to sing the National Anthem at some public event, you don’t disparage the song in any way, unless you want to be booed or otherwise heckled, and rightly so.  Where were the fans watching this BS attempt by this loser woman?!  I would have booed her, or just started to shout out “play ball”, and maybe encourage other people who might not want to start a challenge but would join one!

Again, why Personality Disordered people are taking hold of this society.  People are pathetically tolerant, moronically clueless, or just complicit with the Personality Disordered agenda.

And frankly, if you are embarrassed or outraged by the U.S. National Anthem, while you can protest what you dislike about this country, why not move elsewhere?  Oh, and then if you dislike your new country’s Anthem, try insulting it in front of those citizens, and see how tolerant and accepting they are of your disrespect.

I’m sure we’ll be reading about your arrest or hanging in the news…

Notice how the fans handled that moment!

A lot has changed in 7 years?  Hmm, corresponds to what Americans have tolerated from our alleged leader in the White House!!!

Choice, ain’t it a bitch?!?!

20 Thursday Oct 2016

Posted by therapyfirst in Ranting by a concerned American, Societal Problems

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Choice is a wonderful thing when done right

This post is a bit of a rant, but I will try to make it short.  Frankly, I think one of life’s great opportunities is to have a choice.  People can simplify that statement down to nuts and bolts of “live or die”, “run or hide”, or some other basic life need, but, living in this country, we have access to choice.  And I think people really minimize or just blow off the beauty, as well as the wonder, of pursuing it.

The point here is people have the choice to decide what to do with their lives in various aspects, and the one here tonight is people have the choice to accept or reject health care options.  Having now worked in a state inpatient unit for the past 6 weeks, and listened to several patients who have been hospitalized for years, and think they can manipulate or bruskly persuade me to do their bidding with their care needs, I am at a point of almost equally bluntly retorting to them “well, you can refuse your care plan interventions, and then pretty much eliminate the progress you have made to work towards future discharge plans”.  It is that simple.

Over at Shrink Rap, they want to endlessly debate the value and appropriateness of involuntary committment, but, not seeing many if any muzzle prints to the foreheads of these patients who have been placed into state hospitals that alludes their choices were forced on them.  Nope, most of these patients made their choices to not be in care, stay in care, or work with their health care providers and make shared changes in interventions possibly not working to keep these patients as stable as possible.

These people who are now inpatient residents for months to years, often at the enforcement by court proceedings, made their choices, and yes, most of them were not only poor, but costly.  And now I have to listen day in and out to them telling me either they want to continue to make poor choices and be thanked and supported for them, or even worse, make no choices at all and then just languish in minimally standard living quarters and bitch about it endlessly, or worst, try to use intimidation if not frank violence to accomplish minimal gains.

You know what, I don’t have a drug that improves insight and judgment, and I don’t have a magical answer or simple formula to spontaneously empower people to see the proverbial light.

When a person makes a bad or ill informed choice, and didn’t have a weapon to their body or be forced into a dependent situation with a very dysfunctional person in control, well, that is why life has consequences.  And most of the consequences are not life or death outcomes, but, they will have pain, disruption, and discomfort in psychosocioeconomic ways.  It is what it is living in a civilized society that America is at the end of the day.

So, this isn’t a rocket science appraisal.  If a person is impaired per mood, thought or cognition, if not a combination of those psychological components, and choose to not participate in health care interventions, then one will likely suffer psychosocioeconomic consequences.  And most likely have only him or herself to blame, depending on the etiology of the struggle.

So, folks want to minimize enforced care as an issue?  Make better f—-g choices, and if you don’t see or know there is a choice to be had, seek out someone who has fairly good insight and coping skills to provide a healthy perspective to formulate and act on a good choice.

Are we really this stupid as a culture these days to not know this?!?!  Frankly, I think we are, just by watching this shit show of a Presidential election.  Choose between a male or female serial liar and sexual predator, wow, and you wonder why terrorists stay home and not invade this country to attack us directly…

And I am done…

Really, don’t vote for President…

20 Thursday Oct 2016

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Hillary Clinton will be a short lived presidency, There is power to NOT vote!

I will admit that telling people to not vote at all is a mistake, as the rest of this election process is crucial, but, not for our President, that opportunity is beyond lost.

But, here is why I think there is more to gain by NOT VOTING for a Presidential candidate.  Try to follow the math, and then decide if it makes sense:

Assumption 1:  there are about 1/2 the population who are legitimate registered voters, so if this is true, about 320 Million live here, that means about 160 Million are voters.

Assumption 2:  about 30% of people don’t vote fairly much every election for a multitude of reasons:  apathy, indifference, sheer inability per work demands, or don’t even know they can vote.  SO, if true, that means our number of viable voters is now to about 110 Million, give or take a couple million just to round things out.

Assumption 3:  35-40% of voters are Democrats, and I honestly believe that 85% of this group will vote Democrat even if their representatives pull off masks and reveal themselves to be spawns of hell, so that means from that 110 Million figure about 36 Million will vote for Clinton hell or high water.

Assumption 4:  30-33% of voters are Republicans, and while they also are more often going to vote (R) irregardless, I don’t think it as high as their Democrap counterparts, so I see about 70% voting for their candidate irregardless if a jerk, quirk, or simple a squirt.  That adds up to about 24 million per the 110 Million number above.

Assumption 5:  the remainder of voters are about 33 million, per the total Democrat being about 42 mil and Republicans about 35 mil total each, adds up to 110 Million number out there to be at their precincts.  If these folks really are independent or 3rd party committed, and then see the folly of voting for either Johnson or Stein (see John Oliver’s last show on HBO who laid out how these two are idiots at the end of the day), the assumption here is about a 1/3 will vote and split it evenly between Democrat/Republican/either of other choices to equal about 4 million each, as 1/3 of 33 million is close to 12 million total.

So, if these above assumptions have merit, then the math shows Clinton gets here 36 million from her deadhead, er, diehard supporters along with the 4 million independents who are ready to give up their independence, =40 million.  Trump gets his 24 million cult followers and the other 4 million clueless wanderers, =28 million, and the independents who are hopelessly and naively optimistic that their vote counts give the Johnson/Stein/ Mickey Mouse crowd about 4 million total.

So my point?!  Clinton wins this election with 40 million votes, out of the 72 million total cast is going to be about 55% of the total, BUT, 40 million votes out of an electorate size of about 160 million is only 25% of the country that counts in saying they can support a candidate is NOT a mandate, which she will hideously screech in her acceptance speech, as well as her legion of doom followers across various outlets will echo.

A win is a win?  No!  This antisocial cretin will get away with this attitude if the country allows it, but, again, we can marginalize ignorance, selfishness, and downright illegality.  So, when she tries to push her antisocial agenda hidden as political cause, we can unite and tell her and her cretin followers, “NO, you have no mandate, and you certainly don’t have our approval to be screwed!”  The Washington D.C. Mall having a million or so people protesting the various shit she will try to shove down our throats will lead likely to two outcomes:

She can order American Military to fire on her own people, which won’t keep her in office much longer once such a heinous show of brutality was done, or, she could slink back into her White House confines and try to manipulate with her minions who would as a whole be freaked out the country is not happy.  And then she might be further marginalized by her shrinking supporters, who realize standing in front of an antisocial loser gains nothing of real substance at the end of the day.

Who knows, maybe pervasive marginalizing might lead to further ostracizing as a next weapon to further minimize her damage to this country?

Just a thought.  Now I get why Carlin said there is more to gain by not voting than to vote and put incompetent, selfish, and ignorant people in office to screw things up.

Besides, all this duress and defiance against her might enhance that coming neurological event I hope she has.  The next question is, will a President Kaine be an acceptable substitute?  That one I leave to readers to ponder.

Hope the hypothesis was worth the read…

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Good luck November 8th, not that luck will help!…

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Addendum Fri October 21:

Like I said, it is a personality disordered electorate that supports these overtly personality disordered candidates.  This link reveals the Trump ilk:

http://www.nationalreview.com/article/441319/donald-trump-alt-right-internet-abuse-never-trump-movement

Remember just this one thing if nothing else resonates in you:  these two ooze like an arterial cut it is either their way, or no way, and they have many MILLIONS who not only agree to that, but are more than ready to practice that!

“Online hate has become so common that it’s almost a point of perverse pride among some pundits. If you don’t get hateful messages, you must not matter. If you let the hate bother you, then you must be weak. Indeed, in a world where “feeding” the trolls only makes them stronger, admitting that they’ve hurt you at all represents a victory for the worst of the worst. They relish your pain, and you don’t want them to relish anything.”

And one wonders why French did not run for President.  Gee, with over 50 Million Americans supporting these two slimeballs, who else can you attract to neutralize such hate and disdain for anything else not genuflecting to zealot agenda…

And that is why I call them Republocrats, same cloth, just different color…

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